Tell your ex you are dating

07-Oct-2019 09:18

First, imagine the absolute worst case scenario: You haven’t showered in days, your clothes are wrinkled and smelly, your hair is a mess, and you happen to run into your ex on a date with the most gorgeous girl you’ve ever seen. It may even reignite those familiar feelings of love, lust, or just plain loneliness. Follow the Six-Month Rule After a breakup, the best rule of thumb is to avoid all contact with your ex for at least six months.

In fact, they’re engaged, as evidenced by the huge shiny rock on her left hand. Think about what you can do in six months—train for a marathon, plan and take a well-deserved vacation, buy property, change jobs, heal and move on.

I want to be the one to bring it up, before I introduce this person to my daughter.

I'm not looking for approval from my ex, but I feel like he has a right to know what's happening in his child's life.

It's not at all the revenge plan or anything - I'm over my ex and wouldn't go back.

But you're right - she doesn't need to know If she is sensitive: bring up the topic when you think the time is right. Until you are certain the time is right keep it on the down low.

We're in OK relations but not really friends although we talk sometimes but not much about "us". No new girlfriend will stay with a guy who still talks with his ex and is not over her.

So here is the thing - should I tell her that I'm dating a new girl so that she does not hear it from someone else first? It's a thing I'd do from respect to her but honestly I'm not sure whether she would find it strange or nice that I told her that. You are not being honest with her or yourself if you are not ready to move on and are using her for now until your ex comes back.

I'm not talking to my ex anymore, maybe I forgot to mention that earlier...

We are classmates though so we have to see ecah other on a daily basis.

But you're right - she doesn't need to know If she is sensitive: bring up the topic when you think the time is right. Until you are certain the time is right keep it on the down low. We're in OK relations but not really friends although we talk sometimes but not much about "us". No new girlfriend will stay with a guy who still talks with his ex and is not over her.So here is the thing - should I tell her that I'm dating a new girl so that she does not hear it from someone else first? It's a thing I'd do from respect to her but honestly I'm not sure whether she would find it strange or nice that I told her that. You are not being honest with her or yourself if you are not ready to move on and are using her for now until your ex comes back.I'm not talking to my ex anymore, maybe I forgot to mention that earlier...We are classmates though so we have to see ecah other on a daily basis. If you are only dating the new girl to make your ex jealous and want you back, then that is cruel.