Dating someone while they going through divorce

18-Aug-2020 21:37

He may try to even the score by fighting about custody of the children or how to split the marital estate.

If you have children, then you also need to realize that it's in your best interest to try to keep a cordial relationship with your husband.

Any advice would be wonderful- thanks in advance for your response!

Dear Sara, We all make judgments based on our own experience.

Returning to the single life is a major adjustment.

So when you’re dating someone going through a divorce, you might have to shoulder more than your usual share of keeping things sane and cheerful.You had too much going on during your divorce to possibly consider dating. This same script, I’m reminded, played out in the life of one of my favorite clients who fell in love with a separated man.Therefore, you seem to think all men should feel the same way. But you are correct in proceeding with a sense of caution. Not because he listed himself as divorced but is really separated. He gave a lot to her during their time together, but, when it got right down to it, he really needed to sow his oats for awhile.Currently, I am using online dating to meet new prospects, though I choose not to date anyone who is going through divorce.I am divorced and have been for two years and am of the opinion that there is too much other stuff going on in one’s life during a divorce to date, as well.

So when you’re dating someone going through a divorce, you might have to shoulder more than your usual share of keeping things sane and cheerful.You had too much going on during your divorce to possibly consider dating. This same script, I’m reminded, played out in the life of one of my favorite clients who fell in love with a separated man.Therefore, you seem to think all men should feel the same way. But you are correct in proceeding with a sense of caution. Not because he listed himself as divorced but is really separated. He gave a lot to her during their time together, but, when it got right down to it, he really needed to sow his oats for awhile.Currently, I am using online dating to meet new prospects, though I choose not to date anyone who is going through divorce.I am divorced and have been for two years and am of the opinion that there is too much other stuff going on in one’s life during a divorce to date, as well.Also, it seems that about 40% of the men who state they are divorced are actually still going through the process. That stated, I have come up to some heavy objection from both family and friends – hence I’m here.