Dating for a year and no i love you

05-Apr-2020 10:56

Even if your guy has a hunch that you love him too, it's nerve-wracking to be the first one to say "I love you."Plus there's the pressure of getting it "right." He wants to be sitting in a park after the best date ever, have a sweet speech ready, and as soon as you say it back the previously inactive fountain comes to life and shoots beautiful streams of water into the air as you kiss.

He, on the other hand, already KNOWS you love him, which is why he’s not risking anything by reciprocating.Then again, that’s the risk anyone takes when taking any bold action. These days we sleep together way before “I love you.” Thus “I love you” instead marks a turning point in the relationship. You don’t need a false sense of security from a guy who’s on the fence. If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at [email protected](be sure to read these guidelines first). New readers, welcome to Dear Wendy, a relationship advice blog.Your rent-out-the-stadium-Jumbotron moment can wait. For most men it starts off as a suspicion ("Holy f*ck. ") then it grows to certainty, then to anxiety about how and when to say it, and whether the woman might feel the same way.

He, on the other hand, already KNOWS you love him, which is why he’s not risking anything by reciprocating.Then again, that’s the risk anyone takes when taking any bold action. These days we sleep together way before “I love you.” Thus “I love you” instead marks a turning point in the relationship. You don’t need a false sense of security from a guy who’s on the fence. If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at [email protected](be sure to read these guidelines first). New readers, welcome to Dear Wendy, a relationship advice blog.Your rent-out-the-stadium-Jumbotron moment can wait. For most men it starts off as a suspicion ("Holy f*ck. ") then it grows to certainty, then to anxiety about how and when to say it, and whether the woman might feel the same way.At this point, you may be asking what the right answer is. Withholding an ‘I love you’ for years could end up pushing your partner away, while spilling it within a week could send them running.